PlentyOfFish(POF) is one of the most popular free dating site in existence with millions of men and women looking to meet a great person just like you.
Sorting through all those profiles to find someone you’re actually interested in meeting can be exhausting. If you’re anything like the average online dater, you’re spending around 5.2 hours a week browsing profiles, then 6 more hours or more sending out messages.
Here at Penmyemotions, we will share with you how to find hot men and women on sites like POF, and we know all the hacks that will fill your POF inbox with interested men and women. Here are 14 hacks you can try right now:
Plenty Of fish(POF) HACKS
1)80% of the work of online dating is done with your pictures so get one photo professionally done in a really nice outfit.Use a properly fitted outfit in your best colors, with a natural look. It should look like you, but the best you. I see too many people using old shots and we know you don’t look like that(Don’t do it).Get another photo done that’s more of an eye-catcher.A blurry photo is the male equivalent of a man hating feminazi. Very unattractive;So make sure that your photos are crisp and clear. Photos from your phone aren’t going to cut it if you want to have a little success with online dating for the most part.
Get different kinds of pictures. Nobody wants to see 5 pictures on Tinder of you in the exact same clothes doing the exact same thing. Variety is the spice of life and the life-blood of your online dating.
While not everyone can do the shot throwing snowballs in a bikini, something special that includes bright colors, an interesting sport, or cool event, might be a conversation piece and allow you to show the best part of yourself. I have a shot of me with some practice swords since I do martial arts. It’s cute and non-threatening, but not every girl has one.
2)Make sure you want what they want and they want what you want.
-If they want kids and you don’t, keep looking.
-If they want to marry and you don’t, keep looking.
-If they have a do not engage clause at the bottom of the profile, heed it.
3)Some users list a do not engage if:
You are X age, or older or younger
You live too far away
You smoke or some other BS.
In the “Meet Me” page, there’s a link to their profile. Take the time to read it.
4)As I said before, respect others.I know this seems excessively simple, but so many people just a see a face and a sentence or two and start wasting people’s time.
5)Be Creative, don’t just do coffee or a drink. Zzzzzzz……I also know that many men don’t want to expend time and money on a whole date if they don’t feel attracted, so they buy a drink, or they go for coffee and think this might be a great way to meet someone. I respectfully disagree. Do something fun. Even if the attraction doesn’t work out, you’ve done something fun you might repeat with other friends and that person might know someone. It still has the potential to be a good memory, far more than sizing someone up over a beverage.
6)In US city, there are many options such as an arcade, painting, wine tasting, bowling, board games, karaoke, any number of fun things. You can test out your favorites and worry about the date part later. It also teaches you how that person looks at situations and the unexpected far better than food or drink.
7)If a woman doesn’t say in her intents that she’s looking for a good time and nothing serious, your sexual message will not be welco
8)If they don’t meet you in 2 weeks,flag it and move on..
9)If they can’t arrange it fairly quickly, they have other priorities. Don’t wait around to be an option.
Move on10)You can have a crappy online dating profile and amazing pictures and still do better than most people ever will. But if you have an amazing dating profile and crappy pictures you’ll do about average; which is celibate for life when it comes to online dating.
11)If your bio is bland and generic and looks like you copied it from other bio’s, then expect to not have any luck.
12)With plenty of fish, there are so many people that join (because it is free). The problem that daters have is there are lots of profiles to go through.Women get bombarded with messages, but men don’t. So what I have heard is that men get some sort of program that responds to every female in their area with a response of lets meet up. They then get lots of responses back and then they sift through it and pick out the one’s that they like.So for men it is a numbers game. I think women tend to fair better and don’t have to resort to tricks like this.
13)No ‘Hacks’ are going to work for you at all if your bio and profile pic are not up to standard.Write an interesting bio about yourself that is unique to you, and take some good, clear, well lit, photo’s. You could do a close-up face, and a couple of full body shots.